己 is the yin face of earth: field soil, garden soil — not the earth that blocks but the earth that feeds. Its value isn't strength but content: it accepts seed, water and time, and grows something. A slow capacity, slow enough that it's regularly mistaken for no capacity.
You'll recognise it here: you're good at growing people and things rather than driving them; you don't compete much, and things quietly improve where you are; and someone else's growth registers with you more than your own achievement.
Running well, 己 is where long-term value comes from: a team, a relationship, a craft all need someone willing to spend the time, and that someone is usually you. Blocked, 己 takes in too much — everything, including what shouldn't be there, until it's ground where a lot grows a little and nothing grows well. Or the reverse: waiting out of a worry about not being enough, until the season has gone. The tradition says 己 needs 界, an edge. So its practical lesson is marking the plot: this is what goes here, that is what doesn't, said out loud. You don't lack nutrients. You lack a decision about what you're growing.